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2010 or 2012

Pretty much since Proposition 8 passed here in California back in November, there’s been a drive to get a repeal motion in front of California’s voters.  The various voices of the LGBT community is the state (and beyond) have, over the last nine months, been tying themselves in knots setting up discussions/meetings/polls to try and formulate a coherent platform on which to base a campaign, and potentially as important, when the ballot measure that campaign would drive to should be tabled.

Assuming you don’t want to push it too far out, the two contenders are 2010 and 2012.

The former would put it on the ballot at the same time as the next Gubernatorial election.  The latter would line it up with the next Presidential vote.

The voices in favour of each option have been loud and determined, and, you can’t help but feel, passionately convinced of the rightness of their own argument.

Arguments for 2010 tend to be a little more emotional; why should we wait a single minute longer than we have to for equality? Don’t those people who were married in the state before Proposition 8 came along deserve to have their currently odd status clarified sooner rather than later? etc

2012 advocates, while no less emotionally committed, seem to me to be a little more pragmatic.  People spent a *lot* of money on supporting the No On 8 campaign and going back to that well so soon may be unreasonable; three years from now there will have been more chance to work at the grassroots level to show the people who bought into the scare stuff last time round to see that same-sex marriage isn’t really going to destroy society; there’ll be a greater demographic change in that period, with more young people becoming voters; those new voters are more likely to turn out for a Presidential election than one for the Governor.

Over the last few months various of the organisations involved in these discussions have declared for ‘10 or ‘12, and potentially the most influential, Equality California, has today made its decision public.  For all sorts of reasons, detailed here on their blog, EQCA is going for 2012.

I confess that even though it’s long after I’m due to be back in the UK, and I’d love to be around for the scrap, I think 2012 seems sensible.

Though as I do every time I talk about this stuff, or read about the upcoming ballot on same-sex marriage in Maine (attempting to overturn the law already passed there), or the despicable campaign to undermine Washington State’s domestic partnership protections by pretending they’re something to do with same-sex marriage, I cannot, wrack my brains though I will, understand what possible damage to the institution widening the pool of people with access to it can possibly do.

A San Francisco Thing - SFMOMA

There’s a lot of stuff going on here at the moment, not all of it good, and some of it categorically bad, so occasionally doing that “getting the most out of being in SF” thing I blogged about last week feels increasingly important.  Of course, finding the time in amongst all this stuff is the trick.

Fortunately, the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art (SFMOMA) is about two blocks from the office, and offers a convenient lunchtime respite.  Obviously a lunchtime isn’t enough to do any museum justice, and certainly not this one, but it is time to take in the key points of a current exhibition; Richard Avedon, Photographs 1946 - 2004.

Obviously nearly 60 years of material provides an incredibly diverse range of subjects, and Avedon’s style over the duration shifts appreciably, while maintaining a clear sense of his particular approach.  The exhibition material states he “revolutionized the genre of portraiture. He rejected conventional stiff-and-staid poses and instead captured both motion and emotion in the faces of his subjects…” and there’s little to argue with that here.  Even a particularly striking portrait of Marilyn Monroe, which comes close to looking traditional at first glance, provides an intriguing twist.  Marilyn looks off-camera, a slightly downcast expression on her face, her eyes and downturned mouth somehow sad, her whole body slightly sagging.  It’s a far cry from the kind of photos of the icon you’re used to, all flamboyance and sparkle.

SFMOMA is the only US venue displaying this exhibition, so seeing it definitely fits the ‘only in SF’ model, but regardless of that I’m glad I did.

The museum has a Georgia O’Keefe/Ansel Adams exhibition running through the autumn too, so a return visit is definitely on the cards.

Fierce Advocacy Again

Been a while since I ranted about Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell repeal.  Not that things have been quiet - on the contrary, loads of stuff has been happening, but it’s been covered well elsewhere by people far closer to the issues and the detail than I.

But in the wake of the White House actively working against someone who had a plan to stop discharges under DADT by means of the frankly genius means of saying the DoD should save money by not pursuing any further discharges, I thought at the very least I should provide a link to this impressive summary of the situation relating to President Obama’s campaign promise that work on repeal would start the day he took office.  It’s by Keori at Pam’s House Blend and clearly contrasts the promise of last year with the reality of today.

At every turn, the “fierce advocate” has gone out of his way to screw LGBT servicemembers and their families. He’s changed his rhetoric and his website, passed the buck to Congress, passed the buck to the Pentagon (who have admitted no real conversations on repeal or integration have taken place), admitted his refusal to utilize his authority as CINC to bring about change, and has pressured both the Supreme Court and Congress to leave the ban in place. He is actively fighting the change he promised.

A quick reminder - every single independent view says that support for repealing the policy is significant among every relevant sector; Democrats and Republicans (both politicians and the public), senior service leaders both current and past, everyone except it seems the actual boss of all those discharged LGBT servicemembers.  So making the big assumption that the President isn’t actually a raging homophobe, what exactly is this man so afraid of?

EDIT to add this link to a Rachel Maddow interview with the proposer of that amendment, Congressman Alcee L. Hastings, who uses the word ‘thwarted’ regarding what happened to his effort.

I *heart* Maddow, and I’m now very fond of Congressman Hastings :)

The Difficulty Of Being Ex

I’ve been reading with some bemusement the coverage of a new book by Alan Chambers, the president of an organisation called Exodus International.  This is one of those ‘ex-gay’ groups which helps people ‘leave homosexuality’.  Bemusement not, strictly, at the coverage, but at some of the content cited.  Chambers apparently doesn’t think that he’s ex-gay in the sense that he’s no longer prone to homosexual temptation, just that God/Jesus/etc is helping him resist those temptations to which he may yet be prey.  The much-quoted line from the book is “The opposite of homosexuality isn’t heterosexuality.  It’s holiness.”

Among many reasoned and insightful critiques of Chambers’ beliefs in the cause to which he’s dedicated the last twenty years of his life, there are also the inevitable piss-takes, which I’ve read with glee.  None more so than Dan Savage’s comments today:

Chambers’ definition of “ex-gay” is more elastic than a power bottom’s bottom. An ex-gay, according to Chambers, still wants to sleep with men. He just refrains from having sex with men. So technically I’ve been ex-gay all morning. Not straight, of course, because nothing can make me straight—not even Almighty Gawd—but so long as I don’t have a dick in my mouth I am, according to Chambers, totally not gay.

Worth clicking the link by the way, for the photo of Chambers and the related comment (number 7 under the article).

On Being Here

Strictly speaking, though I tend to count our time in SF from the point when The Mrs joined me in late September, I’ll have officially have been a permanent resident of San Francisco for a year next week.  But I have to confess that I don’t really feel as though I’m ‘of’ San Francisco.

Fair enough, a lot of travel away from the city over the last year hasn’t helped, but I also have to admit that I don’t feel as though I’ve taken enough advantage of everything the city has to offer.  I guess it’s always like that when you live in a place - the drive to get out and explore is curtailed by the sense that there’ll always be more time to do so.  If you’re just visiting then you need to pack everything in.

But we’re in an odd sort of limbo: the original deal to come over here was based on staying until the end of 2010, so mentally we know it’s not permanent.  Our house is still sitting in London waiting for us to go back to it, and our friends and family are all presumably awaiting our return.  So there won’t always be more time to do things, but the end of the stay is far enough away that it robs us of any urgency to get out and do.

But I want to get better about this.  We have been trying a bit harder recently, but could do better.  So I’m setting myself the challenge of doing or going somewhere new at least once a week.  It could be a big thing or a little one, but it has to be something I can only do because I’m currently living where I am.

Watch this space.

Breaking News

Further to yesterday, the Senate just voted to remove the fighter plane funding from the Defense Bill, removing the excuse for a Presidential veto.

The roundabout continues on to other amendments.  You never know, the Matthew Shepherd Amendment may yet make it into law.

Round Up

Sorry - quiet week last week; much going on in various directions, including work and a rather unpleasant “falling out among friends” which got The Mrs (and me to a slightly lesser extent) quite upset.  I may revisit the latter at some point soon.

Anyway, picking up briefly on some recent topics:

The Hate Crimes bill passed the first hurdle last week, but some dark clouds hit the horizon as President “Fierce Advocate” Obama has threatened to veto the Defense Bill to which it’s attached because it contains approval for spending on fighter planes that the US doesn’t need.  Cynical minds began to suspect that attaching the amendment to this bill was a ploy to make it look like people (Obama specifically) were trying to make progress on hate crimes, but were forced to reject the legislation because they couldn’t sanction the wasteful expenditure.

Then today, Senator Jeff Sessions, all over the new last week because he heads the committee that oversaw the confirmation hearings for potential Supreme Court Justice Sonya Sotomayor (the same committee that once turned him down for a federal judgeship because he’s a racist), attached a series of further amendments designed to make the hate crimes parts of the bill harder to pass.

Just once, wouldn’t it be nice if a politician just said “I disagree with this measure, and will argue it on its merits, without trying it weaken it, filibuster it, or just plain old politic it out of existence.  If my arguments are sound then I am confident I will sway others without need for deceit, distraction or dishonourable behaviour”?

On the Queer solidiers (etc) front, Congressman Patrick Murphy (D-PA) is now the driving force behind the repeal of DADT.  He did an online chat on Americablog last week that’s good reading, and an interview with Rachel Maddow that is also worth watching.

On the AIDS Walk:  Did it - raised $500, which was my target.  I could have done better if I’d worked more at it, but thank you to anyone who donated - the walk raised over $3.5million.  Huge numbers of people, and I felt good that I’d actually gone out and done something - I used to volunteer, and get involved in things that help make a difference.  These days I mostly sit back and give money to a few charities, and I’ve been feeling for a while that it’s not enough.  The Walk was a move in the right direction.

Less Hate Please

After a long and convoluted journey, which has actually seen it passed by the Senate three times, The Matthew Shephard Hate Crimes Prevention Act will be offered as an amendment to an upcoming National Defense Bill (don’t ask), in the far more confident hope that it will pass (again) and actually be signed if it does, since the former President had made it clear he would veto it.

Hate crime legislation is a strange beast, with some opponents who I suspect genuinely worry about the idea that it seems to be legislating what people are allowed to think.  But a point that is missed is that motivation and intent are always taken into account when crimes are tried.  It’s the difference between murder and manslaughter after all.

Vermont Senator Patrick Leahy is moving the amendment, and addressed this point in his announcement:

This amendment was carefully crafted to respect constitutional limits and differences of opinion. It will combat acts of violence motivated by hatred and bigotry, but it does not target speech, however offensive or disagreeable, and it certainly does not target religious expression.

Indeed, the Constitution does not permit us in Congress to prohibit the expression of an idea simply because we disagree with it. To paraphrase Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes, the Constitution protects not only freedom for the thought and expression we agree with, but also the freedom for the thought that we abhor. I am devoted to that principle, and I am confident that this amendment does not contradict it.

That additional line “and it certainly does not target religious expression” is also crucial, as one of the claims made against the legislation is that it will criminalise religious leaders who preach hatred disagree with homosexuality for instance.  It won’t.  It never would, and it’s scandalous that politicians would try to use the suggestion that it does as a means of derailing it.  Though ironically that wouldn’t even work as a tactic if it wasn’t for the people who hate those of us who are LGBT.

The senator’s whole statement is covered in The Advocate.

It’s An Odd World…

…. when by  a very long measure the best television you’ve seen all year is Torchwood.  But even allowing for the fact that I haven’t seen much TV this year anyway, let alone much quality stuff, nevertheless, the first two years of the series, while entertaining in places, were also terrible in others and generally you’d have to say they were fairly lightweight fluff at best.

Series three - Torchwood:  Children of Earth is a significantly different matter.  And note some spoilers follow, so if you haven’t seen it yet come back when you’ve found a way to do so.  Seriously - watch this.

Stripped over five days, Executive Producer Russell T Davies said that he wanted to create a TV event, and by most sensible measures you’d have to say he succeeded.  The ratings were amazing for;

a) a sci-fi series,

b) airing in the summer, and

c) a transfer from BBC2 and BBC3 at that.

In fact, the ratings barely wavered from the first night’s, which is unusual enough, but some nights they went up, and the Audience Appreciation numbers were above 80.

Torchwood has always been touted as the ‘adult’ Doctor Who spin-off, but it managed to get a bad rep as assuming that adult had to equate to sex and swearing.  This year I think they’ve managed to keep a focus on the idea that ‘adult’ = ‘about adults’.  The story is nominally about aliens coming to Earth having taken over the planet’s children as a communication channel, and demanding one tenth of those children as a ‘gift’.

I say ‘nominally’, because what it’s really about is how humanity deals with that situation.  And it’s not pretty.  The first couple of days are largely occupied with action scenes as the British government decides that the imminent arrival of the aliens, known as The 456 and who secretly visited Britain back in 1965, requires the assassination of Captain Jack Harkness and the Torchwood team as well as several others we never meet.  The impending alien menace is kept vague but given increasing power by the undeniably creepy messages delivered through the children.  This is against a backdrop of Gwen discovering she’s pregnant and Ianto wondering how to deal with the fact that his relationship with Jack is shifting from just a bit of fun into a full-scale Thing.

Once the 456 arrived on day three, everything changed, and the core theme; “how we would deal with this situation” kicks in.  The politicians have to deal with an apparently superior species that wants to take millions of children away or it will wipe out the human race.  Watching the British cabinet meeting on day four was the point at which the growing sense of “Bloody hell is this really Torchwood?” exploded into “Bloody hell is this the best television in years?”.  Watching the discussion and the hellish rationalisations the politicians adopt was the kind of viewing that you simply can’t look away from.

And then, just when a ray of hope appears in the form of the Torchwood team managing to re-assert themselves, it all finally goes to hell, with the death of a regular at the end of day four making the prospects for day five as bleak as you think it’s possible to get.

And then day five itself dawns and things just get worse.

Let’s face it, Torchwood isn’t where you go expecting mature relationships and intense political drama.  But it is now.  One of the things that I think this year’s run achieved was to make a brilliant job of showing how sci-fi can be used as a framework within which to explore ‘real’ issues.  It’s what all the best sci-fi does, and I honestly think (though I couldn’t imagine ever saying this) that these five hours absolutely represent some of the best sci-fi.

The final resolution of the 456 problem has been criticised for being too quick, but the point here is that the 456 weren’t really the problem.  We were.  The reason for the assassination attempts was to keep the events of 1965 (which Jack was part of) secret, when the clearly better strategy would have been to work with the experts to try and resolve the crisis.  Politics didn’t allow that.  The emotional conclusion forces one of the team to confront exactly the same dilemma as the politicians faced on a different scale, and while the politicos are clearly meant to be the bad guys, it reinforces the fact that sometimes  there isn’t a perfect answer.  Though as I just noted, if the politicians had acted better in the first place maybe no one would have faced that grim choice.

Torchwood: Children of Earth:  Gripping, chilling, warm, human, dramatic, entertaining, compelling, disturbing, tense, distressing, depressing, bleak.  Adult.

Who’d have thought it?

I Am *Full* Of Admiration

Micheal Guest is the former US Ambassador to Romania, and was the first openly gay US Ambassador confirmed by the Senate.  He resigned, after years of service to the country, in 2007, and on his departure delivered a scathing indictment of the State Department and specifically the then-Secretary of State Condoleeza Rice for their lack of leadership in providing support for LGBT employees.  Full details on his Wikipedia entry.

This week he testified at the House Subcommittee looking at implementation of same-sex partner benefits for federal employees, and I’m going to take the liberty of reproducing his astonishingly dignified statement, which I found at today’s Pam’s House Blend entry on the hearings.  I am, as I titled this post, full of admiration for this (apologies, I’m having trouble breaking up the paragraphs properly):

Oral Statement by Michael Guest
Hearing on Domestic Partnership Benefits and Obligations Act
House Subcommittee on Federal Workforce, Postal Service, and District of Columbia
Committee on Oversight and Government Reform
July 8, 2009

Mr. Chairman, thank you for inviting me to offer my perspective on this bill.

For more than half of my life, I served the United States as a career Foreign Service officer.  I was honored to represent our country and am proud of my accomplishments. But in December 2007 I ended my career after having sought, without success, to amend policies that discriminate against gay and lesbian Foreign Service personnel.  No longer could I accept that, while sharing the same service obligations as my colleagues, my family had no benefits, simply because I’m gay.  My partner had sacrificed his career to support me in serving the country that we both love, and in return was treated as a second-class citizen in our overseas postings.  And I couldn’t reconcile how an Administration so consumed with the fight against terrorism would knowingly put my partner’s life at risk, and indeed jeopardize the security and effectiveness of our embassy communities, through policies that based protections needlessly on marriage - an option that of course is unavailable to us.

Mr. Chairman, the State Department-specific inequalities that I challenged frame my perspective on this issue and, as you will see, on our country.  As examples, the Department would not train my partner to recognize a terrorist threat or counter-intelligence trap, thus putting his life and, indeed, U.S. interests at risk.  He had no guarantee of being evacuated, whether for life-threatening medical reasons or to escape political violence that might close the embassy.  The Department would not train him in the informal community leadership roles that he, in fact, was expected to fill.  Unlike spouses, he had no diplomatic protections, nor could he compete for jobs the embassy needed to fill, regardless of qualifications.  And while the Department paid to transport pets to and from post, it wouldn’t pay my partner’s airfare, as if the government for which he sacrificed so much considered him to be less important than a dog.

I trust you see the ironies.  As a diplomat, I advanced American principles of equality, fair play, and respect for diversity in the countries to which I was posted.  And yet the very agency that charged me to do so showed no respect for those principles in how it treated those of us who are gay or lesbian.  Nor did that agency, which drills crisis management and diversity awareness and leadership skills into employees, show any concern for issues of health, safety, morale, and effectiveness that stemmed from these discriminatory policies.

Mr. Chairman, I still believe America is the greatest country on earth.  But my experience in seeking redress of these inequalities made me realize that this is not the America I believed in when I came to Washington, some 30 years ago, to work as an intern here on Capitol Hill. You see, the issue we are here to address is not, as you’ve heard, personal belief, nor is it about the definition of marriage. Those are red herrings.  This bill is about workplace fairness. And it’s about civil rights.  Somehow we as a country have allowed the word “equality” - which is an absolute term - to be redefined to mean more rights for some citizens and fewer for others.  LGBT Americans are not demanding so-called “special rights,” another red herring, through this or any other bill - in fact, you might say that current law gives heterosexuals special rights.  How is it that we’re still debating, even here today, whether citizens who are gay should enjoy the same fundamental protections enjoyed by others with whom we live in our communities, work in offices and factories, and yes, share fellowship in our places of worship?  And in that regard I might mention that when I studied at Furman University, many years ago, I attended First Baptist Church in Taylors, South Carolina, represented here by a panelist from the Southern Baptist Convention who sits next to me yet is figuratively on the opposite side of this table.

Mr. Chairman, I was reluctant to relive before this committee the most painful decision of my life, that of leaving the career I loved.  But for me this is a matter of closure.  When President Obama took action June 17 to end the State Department discrimination I’ve described, I took my partner’s hand and quietly apologized that the decision hadn’t come sooner, for his sake.  Now the spotlight is on Congress.  The bill before you addresses a range of benefits that remain out of reach for federal employees with same-sex partners.  These benefits, which the first panel has already described, are as critical to our families as they are to yours.  I respectfully ask that you close this gap.

You’ve heard many solid arguments for this bill based on what I call “mechanics” - things like worker retention, budgetary impact, and comparisons to corporate policies.  But I ask you to support this legislation for other reasons.

First, principle is at stake.  Equality, fair-mindedness and respect for diversity are at the heart of America’s identity. This bill would honor those principles and bring us closer to fulfilling those ideals.

But second, this bill is about people.  Those of us who are gay have the same aspirations, the same hopes, and the same needs as any of you.  We have families that we love, and that we need to take care of, just as you do.  We are humans, like you.  We love and support our country, like you do.  We ask only to be treated fairly and equally, and that our families be provided with the same employer protections and benefits that are provided to yours.

Across almost three decades in Washington, I’ve heard that policy issues related to gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans are just too hard to tackle, that other agendas must come first, that the time isn’t now.  Well, the time is now.  This issue is hard only because we make it so.  I ask that this committee restore federal leadership on this issue and not allow our equal and fair treatment as fellow citizens to become a partisan matter.  Surely we can come together as a country, and as a people, and do the right thing for families who have yet to realize the equality to which we, as citizens, should be entitled.

Thank you.